Have you ever consider what love is really about?

Are you looking for love? Have you ever consider how you love? Love is grand. To love is to put self aside and place someone else on a pedestal of your heart. It’s unconditional. It’s forever. It’s powerful. When I hear stories about people who break up, I wonder what happen to the love? Were they in love at all? I believe if we learn to have agape love, unconditional love, we won’t be so easily shaken by situations and people that can come between us in our love life. Don’t say I love you to someone, when you truly don’t mean it, just because you think that is what they want to hear. If your love is not unconditional, it’s not love. If it’s all about you, it’s not love. If it place the other person in danger, that’s not love. When you are truly in love, you will know it, because your selfishness will take a back seat. That person whom you love, becomes more important to you than anything else. You will care about their emotional well-being and want to see and help them in any way possible. True love cannot be taken lightly. There are many people who don’t know how to love, but when you find someone who truly loves you, you need to hold onto to that person. If you are looking for love, look for a person who have the God kind of love, unconditional, trustworthy, faithful, loving and self-less. Being in love is a necessary tool to our overall well-being. Learning to love yourself is most important to learning to love someone else. How would you like to be treated and loved? That should always be on your mind, when you tell someone you love them. Live, Laugh and most importantly LOVE.

“Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing. Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part. But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away. When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13