Why Are Women so Angry at Each Other?

I can’t help but notice all the cat fighting going on television. You don’t even need to sit and watch these shows, the commercials says a lot! Hair pulling, glass throwing, floor fighting, and screaming at each other’s face has become the norm for the ladies cast in these shows. What is really going on? It made me wonder, why are women so angry at each other? Where is all that angry really coming from? Then I thought about it and realized, these women are really angry at themselves. They are angry that they do not feel “good enough” for society. They are angry that they are not “skinny” enough and “pretty” enough, they are not “rich” enough and it can go on and on. These women are facing a bigger issue here and that issue is low self-esteem. I always find that those who are always telling others how much better they are than others, are the ones suffering from a huge dose of low self-esteem. In reality no one is better than anyone. Someone may have a better ability to do certain things, but that doesn’t make them a better person, it just makes what they can do better.


When women who have low self-esteem issues are around other women, they try to hide what they are really feeling by acting like they are “tough guys”. They immediately enter a state of denial and try to put someone else down, when they are the ones who are really feeling down. They attempt to exemplify their self worth. They are full of un-useful pride. Deep down inside they are filled with jealousy and envy of others. They would try to down play other women success. Women with low self- esteem are easily angry, can’t handle criticism, always hostile, bitter, revengeful, complainers, like to blame others for their behavior and always looking for acceptance from others. When they show up, trouble shows up. Just being around other women makes them feel inadequate. The shows are banking on these women cognitive issues, although no one realizing it. I’m always amaze how these women like to say, “I’m keeping it 100”, “I am a grown woman”, yet they behave like 12 years old. In many cases, 12 years old are more mature. No woman should be fighting, spiting at others, causing childish arguments, going around talking bad about others, spreading lies on others, getting drunk until they throw up; especially those who are in their thirties and forties, at that age it is just plain unacceptable!



The children growing up today will have to look real hard to find a real positive role model. If any young woman thought these women or women in their lives, who behave like this, are their role models, they are sadly mistaken. Real women who possess a high self-esteem don’t have time for cat fighting and bickering. Women who already know their self-worth, do not go around telling people, “I am this” and “ I own this” and “I do this”, because when you see them, you will see it for yourself. They are naturally confident without being conceited. They know when to turn away from arguments. They are not easily jealous and envious of other women success, because they understand that everyone has their own destiny to fulfill. They are comfortable with their image and body. Most importantly, they have the ability to encourage and help other women to pursue their dreams. I personally would not want any little girl to think yelling, screaming and cursing at another women is acceptable; even when their own mother is doing it. It’s immature and it exhibits a lack of class. My motto is I have too much class to deal with A**. The next time you see women fighting and screaming at each other, ask yourself, what is really going on?